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Jewel Chase Mathewson
Updated May 2, 2018

What if you’re literally a narcissists’ only love supply?

I'm going to answer this question from my experience, I'm not going to sugarcoat it because its not going to help.

What if you are a narcissist “only” love supply…..

First, narcissist or people with NPD, or other sociopathic behaviors do not love, they use.

Second, why do you think that there is only one “supply"? Because there is no evidence at the moment of any others? For how long? Months, years, decades?

Lastly, with no evidence of other NPD traits or behavior, how do you know this person is a narcissist? They might just be a person who is horrible at relationships or giving, or communicating.

There are many selfish, self centered people in the world who treat people badly, but do not fit the diagnosis of a narcissist.

Let's presume that this person is a narcissist…..

To fit the definition, they can not love only one “supply” because they don't even love themselves. They are incapable of genuinely loving and caring for another person. This is what defines a narcissist.

They lack empathy, they don't value and care for other people.

They never accept responsibility.

They will always blame someone or something else for things not going according to their unrealistic fantasies.

They devalue the people they need and want the most.

They feel shame when they are discovered in their false self and run away, disengaging in any kind of self reflection.

So…if you're literally a narcissist’s only supply. You are in for a wild ride of love bombing, being treated like crap, made to feel worthless and then eventually discarded for another supply.

Anything less, you're not dealing with a true narcissist.

Good luck to you, but just know that it's not an easy life to live…otherwise there wouldn't be so many people thankful that that escaped and so many others trying to.