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MAIN TALK UNDERSTANDING GOD THE SCRIPTURES

Examining Teaching of JW's > Can a narcissist think about you and miss you?

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Jolene Campbell

Studied Survivors of Narcissistic Abuse at Narc 101Updated March 4, 2019
Can a narcissist think about you and miss you?

We always want to think they do, don’t we? It hurts to think someone could be so hard hearted to say they love you one minute…then without any remorse, tell you “I don’t love you”….and discard you like you were yesterdays news. Who knows if they think about you…I’m sure they do ‘sometimes’…when they are missing what you can do for them. That’s all. It’s all about them. They don’t miss us, the same way we pine and long for them. They don’t see what they did to us as anything but ‘moving on’. NO http://biggy….TO THEM. It hurts us like heck…but, they could care less. They have one focus and one focus ONLY…THEMSELVES. I can’t fathom this self absorption, but, it’s real and it changed the direction of my life. The person, I thought, completed me…destroyed me. But, only for a time. Thing is…we think about them…we have a hard time remembering they are ‘satan incarnate’ somedays…when we get to remembering the good times. We need to stop and remember why we ‘disliked’ their behavior toward us, in the first place. Honestly…I was asking God to get me out of there, then when He did…I wanted to go back? What? Why? It makes no sense. That’s the evil of it all. Something so ‘off’…will not make sense because I truly believe this is a spiritual realm thing. It’s plain evil. The battle is being fought, not in this world. So, that should tell you who is ALL OVER your ex narc; satan! He will use whatever to kill and destroy. The narc will never miss us the way we miss them. They didn’t feel any attachment. Their idea of ‘love’….well, it’s just NOT! That is NOT love. That is “what can I GET from that person”. This is what the ‘owners manual’ says about love: 4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 8 Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away.

THIS IS LOVE. Something the narc will NEVER know. It’s sad…but, TRUTH. SO….even if they miss you…it’s NOT how you miss them. Even if they ‘said’ they loved you…it’s NOT how you loved them.

The good thing is; YOU CAN LOVE. You can move on and find a REAL relationship. They NEVER will.

Be happy, live your life one day at a time. In the moment. There’s a miracle waiting…just watch!

July 12, 2021 | Registered CommenterJWsStraightTalk