Jehovah's Witnesses Straight Talk - Forum/Blog

Small Business Owner (2002–present)August 10, 2019
What are narcissists obsessed with?

In my opinion, narcissists are obsessed with:

Control must be high on their priority list. Because if you have no control, you can never, ever manipulate

Instilling fear. They are damn good at what they do especially in their own children. Read the stories of adult children and they become literally frozen with fear.

Breaking human boundaries through subtle manipulation manouvering. They can fool many a human being with this clever tactic.
Envy. They envy everyone that has more money and more comforts. And they will take out that frustration on their spouse or unfortunately their own kids.

Hatred. I can assure you that they have mastered hatred skills. They will spend hours and hours to devise strategies of hate. And they can be very insidious. if you become a target, this will not last one year but many, many years probably till their death.

Winning. No matter how dirty they have to be, they must win.
They must always remain the centre of attention. You give the first dinner plate to your child and hey instead of eating, you get a full narcissistic rage.

Yes it is very true

Excellence and perfection from all his victims. No one is perfect so everyone is criticized all the time.
Name calling. As you are being honored by such a supreme being, this becomes part of their obsession to call you whatever they wish

These are the main ones. If the narcissist is successful, they have their own cult.